[00:00.37]The letter reads: "Remember, there are distinctive qualities that set apart the successful Chinese....strive to excel in all you do;
信里这样写道：“记住，成功的中国人具有和其他人不同的特质...所有事情都要努力做得最好；
[00:11.27]be a superb parent willing to curtail your own pleasure for the sake of better nurturing your children;
做一个愿意为培育自己子女放弃自己的快乐的杰出母亲；
[00:19.10]be generous, fair, tolerant, eager to learn from other cultures while sharing your own.
要慷慨、公正、宽容；不仅要乐于和别人分享你自己的文化，还要热情学习别人的文化。
[00:26.01]But beyond these attributes, remember to have an absence of arrogance and boastfulness;
除此之外，切记不要骄傲自大、自吹自擂；
[00:32.20]have unfailing courtesy, forbearance, sensitivity of others' feelings and above all, the ability to diffuse your anger and grievance, 
要时刻保持礼节，容忍别人，理解别人的感受；最重要的是，要化解你的怒气和悲痛，
[00:43.31]not by surppressing them but by transforming them into helpful, positive emotions. 
不是压抑它们，而是把它们转变成积极的、有利的情感。
[00:49.06]In an age and environment of pretension, you have a precious Chinese cultural heritage which we are proud to pass down to you....."
在浮夸的年代和环境中，你又珍贵的中国文化传统，我们为能把它传递给你而骄傲...”
[00:59.45]And so, with my parents definition of distinguished leadership in my drawer at all times,
于是伴随着抽屉里我父母对杰出领导力的定义，
[01:06.13]I have pushed forward to redefine aggressive as assertive, yet hopefully never abrasive,
我敢于将攻击性重新定义为决断性，但希望避免伤及他人，
[01:12.52]to insure that I'm tough enough to make the hard decisions, but never unfairly, always treating people well...
来确保我在做出艰难决定时能足够强硬，但又不失公正，始终善待别人...
[01:21.12]reminding myself at all times to have the humility and sensitivity which is expected in the Chinese culture, 
提醒自己既要时刻保持中国文化所倡导的谦逊和感性，
[01:29.54]adapted to the needs of the pressing business environment which requires a healthy dose of outwardly expressed confidence and courage. 
同时也要有商界高压力环境所要求的外显的自信和勇气。