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[[0d[US[NYNegpN0 I get it, I get it, I get it. bf}v bwS ba0 But still I have to say that, yes, my true belief is that being with somebody who makes you feelshitty or doesn't honor the person you are, is worse. FO/fb؏/f bw_ɉ_TN*N`Oɉ_]PhWN\bS9h N \͑`OvN(WNw SOf|0 The statistics are bleak. ~peW[/f_͂}vv0 But don't use statistics to keep you down or keep you frightened. +R(uNpeW[T,U]0 You can't do anything with these statistics except scare yourself and your girlfriends. NpeW[dNT,U]؏ g]v gSKNY A\(ul g0 So I say, "Fuck statistics." @bNb SN'Y7rv~penc0 It's your life! How dare you not have faith in it! ُ/f`Ovu;m `O`HNbe[yYlO_! The only story that has ever helped me, Greg Behrendt, live my life successfully is the story offaith. 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